Ellyn Bader PhD

A Technique to Halt Reactivity and Foster Resilience in Couples

3 Ways Anger Enters Relationships and How to Disarm it

An Effective Technique For Building Empathy and Connection in Angry Couples

The Challenge of Working with Parallel Uncertainties in Couples Therapy

A Gestalt Approach to Working with Resistance

3 Levels of Impasse

Resolve Symptoms, Then Create Experiences

Teaching Couples Not to Fear Anxiety in Their Relationships

Moving from Furious to Curious in a Couples’ Conflict – Client Story

How Not to Terminate a Client

Why a Little Distance from Your Own Perspective Makes a Big Difference

When to Adjust and When to Draw the Line

How to Keep Depression from Dominating a Marriage

One Question to Point a Client Toward Positive Results

How to Uncover the Emotions Underneath Blame