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Deany Laliotis LICSW

Director of Training at EMDR Institute; Specialist in treatment of traumatic stress disorders and attachment issues; author of chapters and articles on EMDR therapy

Deany Laliotis LICSW

Director of Training at EMDR Institute; Specialist in treatment of traumatic stress disorders and attachment issues; author of chapters and articles on EMDR therapy

Biography

Week 143 Video #2

A Simple Strategy to Help Clients Keep Perfectionism in Check

Week 144 Video #2

How to Find Balance When Confronting Avoidance

Week 146 Video #2

What to Do When Fear of Change Fuels Your Client’s Avoidance

Week 151 Video #3

Working with a Self-Narrative That’s Become a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

Week 152 Video #3

Key Signs That a Self-Narrative May Be Turning Unhealthy

Week 153 Video #4

How to Validate a Client’s Self-Narrative Without Reinforcing Unhelpful Beliefs

Week 158 Video #1

One Way to Help Clients Pinpoint a Past Experience That Might Be Fueling Impostor Syndrome

Week 165 Video #4

Helping Clients Identify the Root of Their Fear of Rejection

Week 171 Video #3

Looking at Emptiness through an Attachment Lens

Week 178 Video #2

Working with Self-Absorption That’s Disguised as Compassion

Week 180 Video #2

Why We Need to Build Greater Tolerance for All Affect

Week 184 Video #3

Working with a Client Who Had Learned to Avoid His Inner Experience

Week 190 Video #1

Feelings are Real, but It Doesn’t Mean They’re True

Week 194 Video #3

Loneliness is Part of Your Experience, Not Who You Are

Week 195 Video #1

The Challenge of Repairing Childhood Neglect

Week 196 Video #3

Loneliness Connected to the Adoption Experience

Week 203 Video #3

Where Did You Learn to Ruminate?

Week 208 Video #1

You Have to Do the Work before the Work

Week 213 Video #2

An Invitation to Experience

Week 217 Video #1

An EMDR Approach to Working with Rigidity

Week 223 Video #4

Are You Willing to Give Up Your Fantasy of Perfection? A Client Story

Week 232 Video #2

When Past Hurts Trigger Despair in the Present

Week 239 Video #1

An Incremental Approach to Helping a Client Tolerate Uncertainty

Week 251 Video #3

Extending an Invitation to Approach Deeper Issues – A Client Story

Week 253 Video #2

Three Considerations to Keep in Mind When Approaching a Client’s Shadow Side

Week 254 Video #1

Working with a Shadow Side Cloaked in Victimhood

Week 260 Video #4

How Grief Unlocked a Lifetime of Feelings of Unworthiness: One Psychotherapist’s Story

Week 264 Video #3

How to Help When Feeling Like They’ve Never Fit In Is Driving Your Client’s Presenting Problem

Week 275 Video #2

Structuring the Therapeutic Relationship When Conflict Avoidance Is Rooted
in Trauma

Week 279 Video #3

How to Address a Pattern of Control that Obstructs a Client’s Ability to Process Traumatic Memories

Week 290 Video #1

Avoiding One Critical Misstep in Working with Hopelessness

Week 300 Video #2

How to Work with Patterns That Lead to Experiences of Gaslighting and Manipulation

Week 305 Video #2

Why It’s Important to Address the Power Differential Between Therapist and Client in Cases of Gaslighting or Manipulation

Week 311

How to Help Clients When Ingrained Patterns of Ruminating and Obsessive Thinking Intensify Their Regret

Week 316

How to Respond When a Client Turns Their Jealousy or Envy Toward You

Expert Strategies to Help Clients Address and Unpack Painful Feelings of Jealousy and Envy (Week 317)

Expert Strategies to Help Clients Shift Out of Persistent Feelings of Defectiveness (Week 318)

Expert Strategies to Help Clients Shift Out of Persistent Feelings of Defectiveness (Week 321)

Expert Strategies to Help Clients Shift Out of Persistent Feelings of Defectiveness (Week 322)

Expert Strategies to Help Clients Navigate Rupture and Build Skills of Repair (Week 324)