NICABM

Social Connection

Week 2 Video #4 – Elisha Goldstein

The Brain Will Choose the Hell It Knows . . .

Week 8 Video #1 – Paul Gilbert

The Hidden Cost of Comparison

Week 12 Video #1 – Paul Gilbert

How Social Connections Increase Vitality

Week 13 Video #1 – Sue Johnson

Why Safety Is the Key to Alive Relationships

Week 13 Video #2 – Esther Perel

The Six Verbs That Fuel Vitality

Week 13 Video #3 – Joan Borysenko

One Way to Maintain Vitality Over the Long Haul

Week 22 Video #1 – Paul Gilbert

How Learning to Live “In the Moment” Helps Clients Overcome Limiting Beliefs

Week 25 Video #1 – Sue Johnson

The Role of Secure Attachment and Connection in Creating Resilience

Week 25 Video #2 – Bessel van der Kolk

3 Factors That Can Protect People from PTSD

Week 25 Video #3 – Joan Borysenko

3 Crucial Elements of Resilience

Week 27 Video #3 – Ron Siegel

Why Seeing Reality as Closely as Possible is Crucial for Building Resilience

Week 28 Video #3 – Pat Ogden

How “Movement Vocabulary” Can Enhance Client Resilience

Week 29 Video #3 – Zindel Segal

Skills for Building Resilience That Lasts

Week 30 Video #1 – Bill O’Hanlon

The Intentional Pursuit of Resilience

Week 30 Video #3 – Shelly Harrell

Part 1 – The 3 Pillars of Resilience

Week 30 Video #4 – Shelly Harrell

Part 2 – 3 Resilience-Building Questions

Week 31 Video #2 – Dan Siegel

How Neural Integration Builds Resilience


Week 34 Video #2 – Bessel van der Kolk

Shame’s Intrinsic Value and the Danger When it’s Absent

Week 35 Video #3 – Stan Tatkin

Cuts Like a Knife: A Psycho-Biology View of Shame

Week 36 Video #3 – Pat Ogden

Frozen Response: Rewiring the Body’s Reaction to Shame and Trauma

Week 40 Video #4 – Stephen Porges

Resourcing Clients to Tolerate Healthy Remorse

Week 41 Video #2 – Kelly McGonigal

Focusing on Social Connections to Treat Shame

Week 41 Video #3 – Shelly Harrell

The Power of Affirming Environments

Week 41 Video #4 – Shelly Harrell

How Cultural and Familial Messages Feed into Shame

Week 42 Video #1 – Sue Johnson

The Generational Effects of Shame on Loved Ones

Week 43 Video #2 – Ron Siegel

A Potent Antidote to Shame

Week 43 Video #4 – Bill O’Hanlon

An Effective Way to Eliminate Shame from Sexual Expression


Week 45 Video #1 – Dan Siegel

The Neurobiology of Anger and Hostility

Week 45 Video #2 – Stephen Porges

How to Work with the Physiology of Anger

Week 48 Video #4 – Michael Yapko & Ron Siegel

How to Work With a Client’s Rage When It’s Tied to Major Life Shifts


Week 52 Video #4 – Pat Ogden

The Power of Connection When Facing the Unknown

Week 53 Video #2 – Laurel Parnell

Building the Resources that clients Need to Help Them Manage Uncertainty

Week 53 Video #4 – Sue Johnson

Fostering Strong Connections to Help Clients Engage with Uncertainty


Week 59 Video #3 – Kelly McGonigal

A 3-Step Action Plan for Motivating Change

Week 62 Video #2 – Ron Siegel

The Unwinnable Game of Social Comparison

Week 62 Video #4 – Shelly Harrell

How to Work with the Subversive Effect of Social Stereotypes

Week 64 Video #1 – Joan Borysenko

How Making a Contribution Can Shift the View of the Self

Week 64 Video #2 – Shelly Harrell

How Identifying Values Can Help Clients Disconnect from External Comparisons

Week 64 Video #3 – Michael Yapko

3 Techniques for Helping Clients Become Comfortable with Their Imperfections

Week 66 Video #2 – Linda Graham

The Cure for the Shame Behind Feeling ‘Never Good Enough’

Week 67 Video #1 – Linda Graham & Ron Siegel

The Healing Power of Normalizing Inadequacy and Validating a Client’s Needs

Week 67 Video #2 – Stan Tatkin

How Changing Posture Can Shift Beliefs and Facilitate Healing

Week 68 Video #3 – Ellyn Bader

Resolve Symptoms, Then Create Experiences

Week 69 Video #2 – Steven Hayes

Pain as a Crucial Factor in Growth

Week 70 Video #3 – Michael Yapko

Getting a Good Future Out of a Crummy Past

Week 70 Video #4 – Marsha Linehan

We See Growth in Repaired Relationships

Week 71 Video #1 – Joan Borysenko

The “Return” in the Rite of Passage

Week 71 Video #2 – Kelly McGonigal

An Exercise in Cultivating a ‘Bigger Than Self’ Mindset

Week 71 Video #3 – Shelly Harrell

“Meaning” is the Compass That Points Toward Growth

Week 72 Video #2 – Linda Graham

Giving Clients Tools to Foster Post-Traumatic Growth

Week 72 Video #4 – Bill O’Hanlon

The 3 Cs of Post-Traumatic Growth


Week 73 Video #2 – Linda Graham

People Need to Know That They Can Overcome Anxiety

Week 76 Video #2 – Ellyn Bader

Moving from Furious to Curious in a Couples’ Conflict – Client Story

Week 77 Video #4 – Pat Ogden and Stan Tatkin

The Power of Eye Contact, Attention Focus, and Breaking the Loop in Attachment Repair

Week 80 Video #2 – Shelly Harrell

How to Find the Right Strategy for the Right Client

Week 83 Video #1 – Terry Real

How to Join Through the Truth and Avoid Confrontation

Week 88 Video #4 – Joan Borysenko

How to Know When We Should Follow the Client’s Lead

Week 90 Video #4 – Kelly McGonigal

One Strategy for Handling Criticism in the Moment

Week 92 Video #2 – Linda Graham

How to Help Client’s Process Their Criticism

Week 92 Video #4 – Michael Yapko

How to Detangle Who’s Right and Who’s Wrong

Week 93 Video #4 – Scott Miller

When Criticism is a Good Sign

Week 94 Video #2 – Edward Tronick

How Disorganization Creates Opportunity – A Developmental Perspective

Week 94 Video #3 – Marsha Linehan

How to Use Criticism to Build Skills – Two Case Studies


Week 97 Video #1 – Bill O’Hanlon

Three Strategies to Reverse a Deterministic View of Depression

Week 97 Video #2 – Lynn Lyons

How to Break the Cycle of Depression and Rigidity

Week 99 Video #4 – Stan Tatkin

What Couples Need to Do When One or Both Are Depressed

Week 100 Video #1 – Lynn Lyons

Three Creative Approaches to Treating Depression in Kids and Teens

Week 100 Video #3 – Shelly Harrell

Working with Depression Fueled by Stereotypes and Discrimination

Week 100 Video #4 – Terry Real

Why We Sometimes Overlook Depression in Men

Week 101 Video #2 – Sue Johnson

How Patterns of Disconnection Can Trigger Depression

Week 102 Video #2 – Shelly Harrell

Strategies for Activating a Client’s Support System

Week 102 Video #3 – Christine Padesky

How to Quiet the Self-Criticism That Can Fuel Depression