NICABM

Relationships

Week 1 Video #1 – Esther Perel

Stuck Is the Extreme Version of Stable

Week 1 Video #3 – Esther Perel

You Have to Heighten the Discomfort

Week 13 Video #2 – Esther Perel

The Six Verbs That Fuel Vitality

Week 13 Video #3 – Joan Borysenko

One Way to Maintain Vitality Over the Long Haul

Week 19 Video #4 – Richard Schwartz

How to Work with Beliefs a Client Knows Are False

Week 20 Video #1 – Sue Johnson

How to Help Clients Create New Experiences

Week 25 Video #1 – Sue Johnson

The Role of Secure Attachment and Connection in Creating Resilience

Week 30 Video #1 – Bill O’Hanlon

The Intentional Pursuit of Resilience

Week 32 Video #4 – Michael Yapko

Identifying Resources and Imagining Future Possibilities


Week 41 Video #1 – Terry Real

Working with the “Shame Message”

Week 41 Video #2 – Kelly McGonigal

Focusing on Social Connections to Treat Shame

Week 42 Video #1 – Sue Johnson

The Generational Effects of Shame on Loved Ones


Week 44 Video #1 – Stan Tatkin & Shelly Harrell

What Lies Beneath Anger and Hostility?

Week 44 Video #2 – Ron Siegel & Michael Yapko

The Structure of Anger and Why it’s Built to Last

Week 44 Video #3 – Sue Johnson

The Link Between Anger and Attachment

Week 44 Video #4 – Ellyn Bader

3 Ways Anger Enters Relationships and How to Disarm it

Week 46 Video #2 – Rick Hanson

How to Work with the Physiology of Anger

Week 46 Video #4 – Bill O’Hanlon

The Body’s Role in Transforming Hostility into Healthy Aggression

Week 49 Video #1 – Ellyn Bader

An Effective Technique For Building Empathy and Connection in Angry Couples

Week 49 Video #2 – Stan Tatkin

Two Practical Ways To Deal With Anger in High-Arousal Clients

Week 49 Video #3 – Stan Tatkin

How to Work With Angry Couples By Using Projective Identification

Week 49 Video #4 – Shelly Harrell

Reducing a Client’s Rage Through Forgiveness Work


Week 50 Video #4 – Ellyn Bader

The Challenge of Working with Parallel Uncertainties in Couples Therapy

Week 51 Video #2 – Kelly McGonigal

Why Uncertainty Is Not a Problem to Be Solved

Week 51 Video #3 – Sonja Lyubomirsky

Facing the Unpredictability of Life Transitions

Week 51 Video #4 – Michael Yapko

Why It’s Crucial to Help Clients Recognize the Ambiguity of Life

Week 53 Video #3 – Shelly Harrell

Empowering Clients to Live Intentionally in an Uncertain World

Week 53 Video #4 – Sue Johnson

Fostering Strong Connections to Help Clients Engage with Uncertainty

Week 54 Video #1 – Joan Borysenko and Rick Hanson

Helping Clients Find a Level of Control When Facing an Impending Loss

Week 54 Video #4 – Steven Hayes

How Embracing Finitude Can Open Clients to the Joy of Life


Week 55 Video #1 – Ellyn Bader

A Gestalt Approach to Working with Resistance

Week 55 Video #4 – Pat Ogden

How is My Client Not Feeling Safe?

Week 57 Video #3 – Terry Real

5 Losing Strategies That Contribute to a Client’s Resistance (and How to Identify Them)

Week 62 Video #2 – Ron Siegel

The Unwinnable Game of Social Comparison

Week 65 Video #4 – Stan Tatkin

How Partners Can Harm or Heal Early Life Injury

Week 67 Video #2 – Stan Tatkin

How Changing Posture Can Shift Beliefs and Facilitate Healing

Week 67 Video #4 – Sue Johnson

Working with “Never Good Enough” from an Attachment Frame

Week 68 Video #2 – Stan Tatkin

Unresolved Trauma Does Not Allow for Growth

Week 69 Video #3 – Rick Hanson

A Two-Part Process for Encouraging Growth

Week 70 Video #1 – Sue Johnson

Connections that Support Growth through Trauma

Week 70 Video #3 – Michael Yapko

Getting a Good Future Out of a Crummy Past

Week 70 Video #4 – Marsha Linehan

We See Growth in Repaired Relationships

Week 71 Video #1 – Joan Borysenko

The “Return” in the Rite of Passage

Week 71 Video #3 – Shelly Harrell

“Meaning” is the Compass That Points Toward Growth

Week 72 Video #2 – Linda Graham

Giving Clients Tools to Foster Post-Traumatic Growth


Week 76 Video #1 – Ellyn Bader

Teaching Couples Not to Fear Anxiety in Their Relationships

Week 76 Video #2 – Ellyn Bader

Moving from Furious to Curious in a Couples’ Conflict – Client Story

Week 76 Video #3 – Michael Yapko

Introducing a Shift from an Internal to External Orientation – A Client Story

Week 76 Video #4 – Stan Tatkin

Introducing a Shift from an Internal to External Orientation – A Client Story

Week 78 Video #4 – Christine Padesky

An Experiment in Developing the Assertive Defense of the Self

Week 82 Video #4 – Stan Tatkin

One Factor that Makes a Difference After a Mistake

Week 83 Video #1 – Terry Real

How to Join Through the Truth and Avoid Confrontation

Week 87 Video #2 – Stan Tatkin

How Good Mentors Can Influence Your Career

Week 88 Video #3 – Ed Tronick

How Advice Can Change Our Outlook on Our Therapeutic Model

Week 99 Video #3 – Sue Johnson

How Connection – And Lack of Connection – Impact Depression

Week 99 Video #4 – Stan Tatkin

What Couples Need to Do When One or Both Are Depressed

Week 100 Video #4 – Terry Real

Why We Sometimes Overlook Depression in Men

Week 101 Video #1 – Ellyn Bader

How to Keep Depression from Dominating a Marriage

Week 101 Video #2 – Sue Johnson

How Patterns of Disconnection Can Trigger Depression

Week 101 Video #3 – Peter Fonagy

Mentalization: An Interpersonal Approach to Treating Depression

Week 101 Video #4 – Peter Fonagy

How to Help a Client See Their Depression Differently

Week 102 Video #1 – Ron Siegel

How to Help Clients Connect to Feelings That Often Lie Beneath Depression

Week 102 Video #2 – Shelly Harrell

Strategies for Activating a Client’s Support System