Week 1 Video #1 – Esther Perel
Stuck Is the Extreme Version of Stable
Week 1 Video #3 – Esther Perel
You Have to Heighten the Discomfort
Week 13 Video #2 – Esther Perel
The Six Verbs That Fuel Vitality
Week 13 Video #3 – Joan Borysenko
One Way to Maintain Vitality Over the Long Haul
Week 19 Video #4 – Richard Schwartz
How to Work with Beliefs a Client Knows Are False
Week 20 Video #1 – Sue Johnson
How to Help Clients Create New Experiences
Week 25 Video #1 – Sue Johnson
The Role of Secure Attachment and Connection in Creating Resilience
Week 30 Video #1 – Bill O’Hanlon
The Intentional Pursuit of Resilience
Week 32 Video #4 – Michael Yapko
Identifying Resources and Imagining Future Possibilities
Week 41 Video #1 – Terry Real
Working with the “Shame Message”
Week 41 Video #2 – Kelly McGonigal
Focusing on Social Connections to Treat Shame
Week 42 Video #1 – Sue Johnson
The Generational Effects of Shame on Loved Ones
Week 44 Video #1 – Stan Tatkin & Shelly Harrell
What Lies Beneath Anger and Hostility?
Week 44 Video #2 – Ron Siegel & Michael Yapko
The Structure of Anger and Why it’s Built to Last
Week 44 Video #3 – Sue Johnson
The Link Between Anger and Attachment
Week 44 Video #4 – Ellyn Bader
3 Ways Anger Enters Relationships and How to Disarm it
Week 46 Video #2 – Rick Hanson
How to Work with the Physiology of Anger
Week 46 Video #4 – Bill O’Hanlon
The Body’s Role in Transforming Hostility into Healthy Aggression
Week 49 Video #1 – Ellyn Bader
An Effective Technique For Building Empathy and Connection in Angry Couples
Week 49 Video #2 – Stan Tatkin
Two Practical Ways To Deal With Anger in High-Arousal Clients
Week 49 Video #3 – Stan Tatkin
How to Work With Angry Couples By Using Projective Identification
Week 49 Video #4 – Shelly Harrell
Reducing a Client’s Rage Through Forgiveness Work
Week 50 Video #4 – Ellyn Bader
The Challenge of Working with Parallel Uncertainties in Couples Therapy
Week 51 Video #2 – Kelly McGonigal
Why Uncertainty Is Not a Problem to Be Solved
Week 51 Video #3 – Sonja Lyubomirsky
Facing the Unpredictability of Life Transitions
Week 51 Video #4 – Michael Yapko
Why It’s Crucial to Help Clients Recognize the Ambiguity of Life
Week 53 Video #3 – Shelly Harrell
Empowering Clients to Live Intentionally in an Uncertain World
Week 53 Video #4 – Sue Johnson
Fostering Strong Connections to Help Clients Engage with Uncertainty
Week 54 Video #1 – Joan Borysenko and Rick Hanson
Helping Clients Find a Level of Control When Facing an Impending Loss
Week 54 Video #4 – Steven Hayes
How Embracing Finitude Can Open Clients to the Joy of Life
Week 55 Video #1 – Ellyn Bader
A Gestalt Approach to Working with Resistance
Week 55 Video #4 – Pat Ogden
How is My Client Not Feeling Safe?
Week 57 Video #3 – Terry Real
5 Losing Strategies That Contribute to a Client’s Resistance (and How to Identify Them)
Week 62 Video #2 – Ron Siegel
The Unwinnable Game of Social Comparison
Week 65 Video #4 – Stan Tatkin
How Partners Can Harm or Heal Early Life Injury
Week 67 Video #2 – Stan Tatkin
How Changing Posture Can Shift Beliefs and Facilitate Healing
Week 67 Video #4 – Sue Johnson
Working with “Never Good Enough” from an Attachment Frame
Week 68 Video #2 – Stan Tatkin
Unresolved Trauma Does Not Allow for Growth
Week 69 Video #3 – Rick Hanson
A Two-Part Process for Encouraging Growth
Week 70 Video #1 – Sue Johnson
Connections that Support Growth through Trauma
Week 70 Video #3 – Michael Yapko
Getting a Good Future Out of a Crummy Past
Week 70 Video #4 – Marsha Linehan
We See Growth in Repaired Relationships
Week 71 Video #1 – Joan Borysenko
The “Return” in the Rite of Passage
Week 71 Video #3 – Shelly Harrell
“Meaning” is the Compass That Points Toward Growth
Week 72 Video #2 – Linda Graham
Giving Clients Tools to Foster Post-Traumatic Growth
Week 76 Video #1 – Ellyn Bader
Teaching Couples Not to Fear Anxiety in Their Relationships
Week 76 Video #2 – Ellyn Bader
Moving from Furious to Curious in a Couples’ Conflict – Client Story
Week 76 Video #3 – Michael Yapko
Introducing a Shift from an Internal to External Orientation – A Client Story
Week 76 Video #4 – Stan Tatkin
Introducing a Shift from an Internal to External Orientation – A Client Story
Week 78 Video #4 – Christine Padesky
An Experiment in Developing the Assertive Defense of the Self
Week 82 Video #4 – Stan Tatkin
One Factor that Makes a Difference After a Mistake
Week 83 Video #1 – Terry Real
How to Join Through the Truth and Avoid Confrontation
Week 87 Video #2 – Stan Tatkin
How Good Mentors Can Influence Your Career
Week 88 Video #3 – Ed Tronick
How Advice Can Change Our Outlook on Our Therapeutic Model
Week 99 Video #3 – Sue Johnson
How Connection – And Lack of Connection – Impact Depression
Week 99 Video #4 – Stan Tatkin
What Couples Need to Do When One or Both Are Depressed
Week 100 Video #4 – Terry Real
Why We Sometimes Overlook Depression in Men
Week 101 Video #1 – Ellyn Bader
How to Keep Depression from Dominating a Marriage
Week 101 Video #2 – Sue Johnson
How Patterns of Disconnection Can Trigger Depression
Week 101 Video #3 – Peter Fonagy
Mentalization: An Interpersonal Approach to Treating Depression
Week 101 Video #4 – Peter Fonagy
How to Help a Client See Their Depression Differently
Week 102 Video #1 – Ron Siegel
How to Help Clients Connect to Feelings That Often Lie Beneath Depression
Week 102 Video #2 – Shelly Harrell
Strategies for Activating a Client’s Support System